As I'm sitting on a bus from Bangalore to Goa (N.B. a 14 hour trip - equally as long as my flight from JFK to Delhi) I've got plenty of time to sit and reflect on my day and my time here in general. One occurrence, that I feel is representative of several other interactions concerning this topic, keeps popping back into my mind. Today on the way home from school Tom and I stopped to chat with a guy we've seen several times on our usual route, we’ll call him “Dipak.” The topic of religion came up and once I made the admission that I’m Jewish his first and only question was, “Really? I wouldn’t have thought so. You have a very average size nose.” We all laughed, I kindly explained the stereotype and we moved on.
In these situations I try to keep in the forefront on my mind that I chose to hold the belief that we are all infinitely ignorant, no matter how much you know, there will always be something you don’t. It’s humbling and a good reminder not to judge others on a comment that we think is stupid or naïve.
By far the most common response to hearing that I’m Jewish is something along the lines of a bewildered smile and a series of questions best summarized by my favorite 4th grade boy, Thowfiq (sounds very much like “Kofig,” which is what I’ve been calling him for a month now, that is, until he corrected me yesterday).
Thowfiq: Which religion are you?
Josh: I’m Jewish.
T: Muslim?
J: No, I’m a Jew.
T: Christian?
J: No.
T: Hindu?
J: No.
T: (look of bewilderment) Muslim?
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Great kid…
Lastly, the least common, but most endearing, response I’ve received thus far to my admission is best exemplified by that of my host father, Ram (or as he has affectionately become known by, Uncle).
Josh: (as part of a longer conversation) Ya, I’m Jewish.
Uncle: Oh, you’re Jewish. The Jews have done really well in India. They’re good business men and have really helped improve the communities they live in. They’re some of the only upper class in India that really gives back.
… 30 minutes later after a brief overview of Jewish history in India, the major accomplishments of the Jews in India and many of Uncles personal views on Jews in general…
Josh: Wow, I never really knew anything about Jews in the sub-continent!
Uncle: Here’s an article about the inventor of Drip Irrigation, an Indian Jew from Kerela and here are a few books you might be interested in.
Josh: Thanks!
These are just a few of the more memorable interactions I've had with the locals involving the topic of religion, I’m sure there will be more to come.
Now here’s for the sad part: a few days ago there was a terrorist attack in Delhi where an Israeli diplomat’s car was bombed. There is not a long history of anti-Semitism in this country, but it’s here (like pretty much everywhere else in the world) and from time to time it rears its ugly head (the last attack on Jews in India was in 2008 when the Chabad house in Mumbai was assaulted by terrorists). C’est la vie.
It sure is an interesting place to be a Jew.